Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Guest Blog by Michael Eldridge

Many thanks to Michael Eldridge for his willingness to guest blog for the next couple weeks while I concentrate on being Mother of the Bride and putting the finishing touches on wedding preparations. You can get to know Michael better by reading his bio info after the blog.  Enjoy! ~Christy

Matthew 26:36-37 (ESV)

36 Then Jesus went with them to a place called Gethsemane, and he said to his disciples, “Sit here, while I go over there and pray.” 37 And taking with him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, he began to be sorrowful and troubled.

My new friends, quite obviously I am not Christy. I am also decidedly not a woman, which matters given the possibility that most of you who visit this forum are ladies. Some might suggest that I have nothing of practicality to offer you. Aren't I so from Mars—made too much of snips and snails and puppy dog tails—that my best attempt to connect you more deeply to Christ would fall short of perfectly relating? We're as different as night and day, you and I are. You think differently, reason differently, feel differently, plan differently, and fear differently, so there's no way my personal journey with Jesus can truly connect with you in yours...
...except if you bring that assumption into the lamplight, you quickly see how untrue it is. For all of our differences, we are exactly the same. In Jesus Christ, we are saved from the same penalty, saved for the same eternity, and saved into the same reality. We'll always approach how we face this reality uniquely one to another, but the core reality is the same, along with the problems it introduces, the insecurities it exposes, and especially the sorrows it frequently produces. Actually it's your sorrows and troubles I'd like to discuss for one brief moment today, asking you a simple question: within your journey growing with our Savior and Friend, how do you handle them?
Do some snooping in Gethsemane today and you’ll see how Jesus handled his. Amidst those vineyards and presses you’ll find unblemished deity willingly clothed in full humanity, taking atonement’s final steps to the cross in utter anguish over their impact within his relationship with his Father. More so than at any other time in his recorded life, our Redeemer shows here how intimately he understands our core reality. “A man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief” the prophet labels him (Isaiah 53:3), and notice how God’s Son handled his. Yes, he emptied his heart to his Father in prayer, coming to perfect, trusting surrender to God’s wisdom and will, but he did this in connection with others—just a small group, to be sure, but notice how Jesus took them deeper, how he bared his soul to them, and how he asked them to walk with him into reality’s battle. How interesting that even in Jesus’ perfect relationship with our Father there is a clearly demonstrated need for relating with others.
Resist the temptation to withdraw, you man or woman of God. It is away that your sorrows and discouragement will take you, perhaps persuaded that isolation is better than intimacy. Hear, though, the squeak of this critical hinge on the door of our personal discipleship: walking and growing in him means walking and growing with them. You were saved for a community, not a convent. No season in life proves this like one of pain, and without your community you cannot mature as his disciple.
How have you experienced growth in your relationship with Christ as you walked through the days of your reality in partnership with a small group of other Christians? How would you counsel a fellow believer who seems drifting in the loneliness of sorrows?

Michael and his family find themselves transitioning in their pastoral ministry. Having married in 1996, he and his wife, Dale, began their journey at seminary in Louisville, Kentucky, ultimately making pastoral stops in Alabama, Kentucky, and most recently Knoxville, Tennessee. Now they and their children, Abigail and Daniel, have returned to their hometown of Tullahoma, waiting as God moves them toward a next assignment. Let us partner with them in prayer, asking our father to open for them "a wide door for effective work" (1 Corinthians 16:9), the kind of which He blesses and uses to transform Christians and churches into forces for attracting and impacting the unchurched with the gospel.


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